What if no one cares?

ACCOUNTABILITY

It seems we need this to stick with something that we don't enjoy.

I have felt (countless times) that LACK of accountability. And what happens when I don't have anyone to hold me accountable? I fall. I fail. I make excuses. I quit. I slack. I don't measure up to any expectations, especially when NO expectations have been set. 

I often have a pity party inside my head! I frequently find myself saying, 

"Well, no one else cares if I fail. I have done it before, and NO ONE cared. Why does it matter what I look like, anyway? I am still a good {wife, mom, friend, sister, daughter} even if I don't fit into those goal jeans or hit my goal weight. 

WHY DOES IT MATTER?

NO ONE ELSE CARES? 

WHY SHOULD I?"

After time and time again of struggling through this mindset, this thought came to me just yesterday. I reversed the question and asked myself:

 "IF I DON'T CARE ABOUT MYSELF, 

WHY SHOULD ANYONE ELSE?"

This was a tough reality check. 

Why do I worry so much about what others think and try to please everyone else?

The person I should worry most about is myself. After all, I am the one who has to look at myself in the mirror. Am I proud or ashamed of the choices I have made? 

So where should the expectations come from? 

They should come from within. What is it YOU want and desire? And how bad do you want it?

Expect more from yourself. Not because you are not good enough RIGHT NOW, but because you are capable of SO MUCH MORE!!!! Much more than you ever give yourself credit for. 

Do it for YOU. And no one else. Because you are worth it. 

Don't get me wrong, this is NOT an easy task. 

We all need constant reminders.

Can you count yourself as your own accountability? Your level of commitment depends on your level of desire to grow and become better. 

But guess what? No matter how much you think no one else cares, there is always Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ that will care for you no matter what. They also want you to do your best and become your best. Challenge yourself. Improve your skills and mindset. We are here to learn and grow, NOT JUST SURVIVE.

It seems that through struggles, we are brought to our knees in humility and broken heart, which then draws us closer to God and we will then become spiritually stronger. 

We all have a purpose and a place in this life. There is no doubt in my mind that each one of us is unique and we each play an important part here on earth. 

This new favorite song of mine portrays JUST THAT!!!!!

Read the powerful words, then LISTEN to the song and FEEL of it's truthfulness <3

There are times when

you might feel aimless

and can't see the places 

where you belong.

but you will find that 

there is a purpose

it's been there within you all along

and when you're near it, 

you can almost hear it.

It's like a symphony

Just keep listening

and pretty soon you'll start 

to figure out your part.

Everyone plays a piece

And there are melodies

in each one of us.

It's Glorious!

And you will know how

to let it ring out

As you discover who you are

Others around you will start to wake up

To the sounds that are in their hearts

It's so amazing

What we're all creating.

It's like a symphony

Just keep listening

and pretty soon you'll start 

to figure out your part.

Everyone plays a piece

And there are melodies

in each one of us.

It's Glorious!

Listen to GLORIOUS by David Archuletta

"Focus your energy on the things that really matter! There will always be distractions that will keep you from achieving your goals. Don't give in to them. How have you increased your skills, knowledge, abilities, or income in the past 90 days? Do you really expect to be successful, given how you are using the majority of your time, resources and skills?

Are you spending time with people who can enhance and enrich your life? What are you doing to take your life to the next level? Will your current efforts make the next 90 days even more successful than what you just experienced? Be honest with your assessment. Don't play games with yourself. Remember ~ if you don't have an agenda for your life...you will be a part of someone else's agenda. You have GREATNESS within you!" -Les Brown

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Latest struggle: Feeling ALONE

Have you ever felt ALONE? Surrounded by countless people, yet feel so alone? 

This past weekend held emotional highs and lows. And for some reason, I still wasn't over it by Monday..

Here is what I realized, and feel I have to share. Not only to overcome this feeling of loneliness, but to help others struggling with the same thing.

EVERYONE has their own demons they have to constantly battle. Nobody's struggles are "better" or "worse" than anyone else's.

And we all likely feel ALONE at some time or another. We feel that there is NO ONE who gets us or understands us completely. I feel I have passions, struggles, heartaches, worries, likes and dislikes, that no one can fully understand.

I was driving today and a thought came to me. The part in Harry Potter (yes, I am a HUGE HP fan) when Harry was feeling so alone and felt that he had to fight Voldemort all on his own. And Luna Lovegood told Harry that THAT is exactly how "you-know-who" wants him to feel.

ALONE.

Because the ONLY way you-know-who can defeat Harry is if he feels alone and helpless.

Harry Potter: Thanks. Seems you're about the only ones that do. 
Luna Lovegood: I don't think that's true. But I suppose that's how he wants you to feel. 
Harry Potter: What do you mean? 
Luna Lovegood: Well if I were You-Know-Who, I'd want you to feel cut off from everyone else. Because if it's just you alone you're not as much of a threat. 

SOOOO it hit me again. THAT is how Satan wants us to feel. He wants us to feel ALONE because when we are alone, he is able to have more control over us, our thoughts, and our actions (or lack thereof), and we feel defeated and helpless. Satan is HAPPY when I feel alone, sad, distressed and not productive. He wants me to feel like I have NO ONE because then I get down on myself and have an emotional pity party and don't feel like doing anything. 

When I feel lonely and alone, I am less in tune with the Spirit and I am unproductive and negative toward myself. I feel defeated. Just like Satan wants me to feel. Because that way, I am not as much of a threat.

It seems I need reminded of all the love and support I have.

  My Heavenly Father Jesus Christ  My FAMILY  My FRIENDS  My fellow coaches  My church and countless other acquaintances that are cheering me on.

THEY want me to succeed and that means more than anything. 

THIS is what gives me HOPE again.

Because with SUPPORT and LOVE, we are STRONG and cannot be defeated!

And YOU WERE MEANT TO SHINE......

My husband could tell I was distressed and an emotional wreck, so he brought me home my favorite flowers <3

How can I  I am alone, with so many people that love and support me?

It is tough to see the positive in a situation where you feel like all hope is gone, but I am here to tell you that hope is never completely diminished. It may be lost, but it IS POSSIBLE to find it again.

Maybe you don't have someone bringing you flowers, but you have one person who is always on your side cheering you on. 

This video HERE  is an AMAZING and POWERFUL testament to me. I felt the SPIRIT so strongly telling me of it's truthfulness! Watch the entire thing or start at 15:30 and hear the BEST part!!!!! YOU ARE LOVED

Never forget that.

"Whether you are 8 or 108 there is one thing that I hope you truly understand and know:
YOU ARE LOVED. You are dear to your Heavenly parents. The infinite and eternal creator of light and life KNOWS YOU. He is mindful of you. Yes, God loves you this very day and always. He is not waiting to love you until you have overcome your weaknesses and bad habits. He loves you today with the full understanding of your struggles. He is aware that you reach up to him in heartfelt and hopeful prayer. He knows of the times you have held onto the fading light, and believed.
Even in the midst of growing darkness, He knows of your sufferings. He knows of your remorse for the times you feel you have fallen short or failed and still he loves you. And God knows of your successes, though they may seem small to you. He acknowledges and cherishes each one of them. He loves you for extending yourself to others. He loves you for reaching out and helping others bear their heavy burdens, even when you are struggling with your own. He knows everything about you.
He sees you clearly. He knows you as you REALLY are. And He loves you today and always.

Do you suppose it matters to our Heavenly Father whether your makeup, clothes, hair and nails are perfect? Do you think your value to him changes based on how many followers you have on IG or Pinterest? Do you think he wants you to worry or get depressed if someone unfriends you or unfollows you on facebook or twitter? Do you think outward attractiveness, your dress size or popularity make the slightest difference in your worth to the one who created the universe? 
He loves you for not only who you are this very day, but also for the person of glory and light, you have the potential and the desire to become. More than you could ever imagine, he wants you to achieve your destiny, to return to your heavenly home in honor."

---Dieter F Uchtdorf
General Women's Broadcast October 2014

YOU ARE NEVER ALONE.

YOU WERE MEADE FOR DIVINE PURPOSES and HAVE A DIVINE DESTINY.

If you feel you need someone to talk to, contact me. I want to hear from you.

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Shopping list for the 21 Day Fix

Shopping List for the 21 Day Fix

You should always go to the grocery store with a list of foods to buy – otherwise, you will find yourself in aisles you don’t belong, looking at foods you don't need, and then spending more than planned! (sound familiar?)
Having a PLAN and will make a HUGE difference and it really is the best way to stay on track with healthy eating and save money!

For the 21 Day Fix nutrition plan, you should be thriving on whole foods. This means the majority of your grocery shopping will be done around the outer perimeter of the grocery store, which is always where all the good stuff is displayed.

I use this grocery list for the 21 Day Fix by printing it out and making a note in the margins of how many servings of each container I needed for the week. Check off each item as you add them the cart.

If you are looking to buy the 21-day Fix program with workouts and color-coded containers, you can CLICK HERE to buy it from the company with a full money-back guarantee and warranty on all DVDs
OR even better! You can get an annual access pass to Beachbody on Demand which will include the 21-day fix program, nutrition guide AND a bag of the healthy superfood nutrition supplement Shakeology for an AMAZING price! That way, after you finish the 21-day fix, you can move onto the 80-day obsession with the same food containers, or choose from one of the 55+ other workout programs that are available online with Beachbody on Demand! CLICK HERE TO GET THE BONUS PACK!

IF YOU NEED HELP OR SUPPORT, FEEL FREE TO CONTACT ME cherishsaurey@gmail.com

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Inspire others while becoming your best self!

INSPIRING OTHERS AS YOU BECOME YOUR BEST SELF!

Becoming a Beachbody coach is a very important decision, and when taken seriously, it can change your life! It has changed mine in countless ways! AND YES, it IS a legit business opportunity! Not as a salesperson, but as a service-giver, friend, helper, enabler of dreams, listener, problem-solver, mentor, health advocate, goal-seeker, and much much more! I became a coach initially to get the discount on Shakeology, the healthiest most nutrient-dense super food shake. I began losing weight and feeling the best I had felt in YEARS! This new-found excitement for life and personal progress was exciting and so it came natural to share with others what I was doing to improve my health and my life.  People needed my help. They saw my progress and wanted little ol' me to help them get results of their own. As I continued to share my desire to be healthy and fit, others came to me as they were ready to start their own journey, and because I was a Beachbody coach, I had the tools to help them reach their goals. It became obvious that the more I improved my own life, the more I was able to guide others. EVERYONE WINS! I want you to understand that as you improve your own life, you inspire others whether you are aware of it or not. The ripple effect that you have on others would likely surprise you! And what better motivation than to know that the more people you help, the better your business becomes! You can flourish in so many ways, and your income will grow alongside the impact that you have on the lives of others. You choose how much effort you want to put into helping others and you can make anywhere from a part-time to a full-time income.  All while working from home--or anywhere you choose. When I signed up, I actually had no clue what the potential for income was. I never thought that I could possibly become a business owner and make enough money to actually make a significant difference in my family's income. HOWEVER, IT HAPPENED!! I learned that the more I committed to helping others, the more my income was growing. I was becoming a leader and learning new things to improve my skills and mindset. My attitude toward life was changing for the better and I realized I had DREAMS for my life that I had almost given up on. Dreams that seemed almost impossible before were coming TRUE! Matching my husband's full-time income and Beachbody even paid for our family vacation to Walt Disney World, and another cruise vacation for my husband and I! Best "business trip" ever!  I am humbled to know that just because I decided to take action on improving my own life, I can now SHARE  what I LOVE, and HELP OTHERS change their lives physically, emotionally, spiritually, and financially, I am able to be at home with my 3 children while making a significant income.  The best part? It's continues to GROW. The potential is limitless and my efforts are duplicated as I help more people. Another BONUS? Beachbody GIVES us customers! Yes, those people that see an INSANITY, P90X, Body Beast, PiYO, 21 day FIX, 80-day Obsession (etc...) infomercials and order online, are given free coaches to help them. I actually have over 1000 customer leads from Beachbody, and I get commissions when they order a Beachbody product! I try to keep n contact with them and help them when they have questions or concerns about the Beachbody program they ordered.  Yes, it has taken time to grow, effort to improve myself physically and mentally, and persistence in striving for small measurable goals, but being able to do something I am PROUD of and that I LOVE and am PASSIONATE about each day, on my own schedule and in the comfort of my OWN HOME.....It's indescribable and priceless. The excitement grows each time we have a new coach join our team! There is something so powerful about seeing others take the initiative to get their life and health on the right track and commit to improving themselves each day, and then paying it forward to inspire and help others. If this sounds like something  that you would like to talk  more about, feel free to leave  your contact info below in  the application and we can  schedule a time to talk.  If you have already had a positive experience with Beachbody programs and are ready to become a coach NOW, I can help you! When you purchase one of the savings packages upon sign up, your coach sign up fee is WAIVED! Yep, that makes signing up totally free and you get a 25% discount on all future orders, plus can immediately start referring others to these products for a commission. Join our team and community of supportive coaches! CLICK HERE to go directly to the coach sign up page Then I will contact you and we can talk about goals and how to get started! Fill out the application below to be considered for my upcoming coach training If you have questions, don't hesitate to ask! cherishsaurey@gmail.com

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In becoming resilient to shame

Reading in my book about being resilient to shame.....

"SHAME IS THAT WARM FEELING THAT WASHES OVER US, MAKING US FEEL FLAWED, AND NEVER GOOD ENOUGH."

Makes me realize how much shame I have. 

If you think I am on this health journey for vanity reasons, I will straight up say it....
YOU ARE WRONG. Because no matter how much weight I lose or how "toned" I get, I will never have what society thinks is "the perfect body". That's not WHY I workout and eat healthy. I just want to LIVE life and be healthy, and help others do the same!

Sharing this pic is completely out of my comfort zone, and to tell you the truth, I have NEVER EVER shared a forward-facing before and after photo. Heck, I don't even show my scar in person to family, friends, or acquaintances. The stretch marks from having 3 children doesn't make it ANY better either. But I ALWAYS hide it. WHY?

Because of shame.

I have been ashamed of this scar my ENTIRE LIFE. I have let it define, me, embarrass me, make me feel less than human, make me feel not good enough, and so many other destructive emotions that I can't describe.

For as long as I can remember.

But I am done with the shame, because it doesn't have power over me.

In this book I also read, "THE LESS WE TALK ABOUT SHAME, THE MORE CONTROL IT HAS OVER OUR LIVES"

but even more powerful:
"SHAME NEEDS 3 THINGS TO GROW OUT OF CONTROL IN OUR LIVES; SECRECY, SILENCE, AND JUDGEMENT. WHEN SOMETHING SHAMING HAPPENS AND WE KEEP IT LOCKED UP, IT FESTERS AND GROWS. IT CONSUMES US. WE NEED TO SHARE OUR EXPERIENCE.

SHAME HAPPENS BETWEEN PEOPLE, AND IT HEALS BETWEEN PEOPLE. IF WE CAN FIND SOMEONE WHO HAS EARNED THE RIGHT TO HEAR OUR STORY, WE NEED TO TELL IT.

SHAME LOSES POWER WHEN IT IS SPOKEN.

IN THIS WAY, WE NEED TO CULTIVATE OUR STORY TO LET GO OF SHAME, AND WE NEED TO DEVELOP SHAME RESILIENCE IN ORDER TO CULTIVATE OUR STORY."

That, my friends, is WHY I am sharing this. So I can let go of my shame and MOVE the freak ON.  I am not even sure this will impact anyone else other than me. I have so many supportive friends here, so that is why I am taking the initiative to determine that YOU are have earned the right to hear my story, and I only hope I can earn the right to hear yours. 

Oh, and this isn't the end of my story either.

If this impacted you at all, don't hesitate to like, comment or share. I am serious. SHARE away and maybe this will help someone out there that is suffering silently in shame  I understand

#gastroschisis #survivor #noshame #cherishyourself #movementofHOPE


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What is the 21 day FIX?

What is the 21 day FIX?

The 21 day fix is unique because it simplifies the nutrition plan with color coded portion-control containers and 30-minute workouts that can be done in the comfort of your own home! 

It is something that ANYONE can do and there is no weighing food or counting calories, carbs, or points

Since it is known that the majority of results come from NUTRITION, people are seeing results with this program faster than ever! Although the name suggests it may be a "quick fix", it is not that. Learning from what this program teaches and applying it to a healthy lifestyle, it can and WILL actually become a long-term lifestyle change!

This home program will teach you: 

What to eat

How to portion your meals and get enough of each food group each day

How to simplify healthy eating

How to incorporate a short, yet effective workout into your daily schedule

How to stick with a short-term program for lasting results! 

(YOU CAN DO ANYTHING FOR 21 DAYS!)

It even comes with its own color-coded containers and easy to follow guide so you can stick with your proper portions and not under eat or over eat.

The variety guided workouts on DVD that are easy to follow and only 30 minutes long! There is also a workout calendar that tells you what workouts to do each day, so it is a SIMPLE plan that when followed, you will get results and FEEL a difference in just 3 weeks!!
How does it work?
• The Eating Plan shows you how to use the portion-control containers
• Simply put your choice of food in the color-coded container—if it fits, you can eat it!
• Do one 30-minute workout per day according to the Fitness Guide
• Follow the simple plan, and you can lose up to 15 pounds in 21 days
What's included?
• 7 color-coded portion-control containers
• Shakeology® shaker cup
• 6 easy-to-follow 30-minute workouts
• 21 Day Fix Start Here quickstart guide and workout calendar
• 21 Day Fix Eating Plan that shows you exactly what to do
• 3 Day Quick Fix Guide, Autumn's secret weapon for fast weight loss
• Dirty 30 bonus workout
• Exclusive! FREE bonus workout—Plyo Fix (a $19.95 value)—when you order through me

AND when you order the challenge PACK, you get a 30-serving bag of Shakeology that will make meal planning even easier because you can replace one meal a day with
this super food nutrition shake!
When bought together in the pack, you save over $50 compared to purchasing them separately!
ORDER the pack HERE

or click HERE to order just the program (DVD/nutrition guide and color coded set of containers)

Here is a local friend of mine that stuck with this program for 6 months and hit his 100 pounds weight loss mark!!!! How exciting is THAT?!?!?!

21 days is a short term goal and easier to stick with to create those lasting habits that will lead to lifelong health! You can do as many rounds as you want to get the results you need!

You can order this program with or without the nutrition supplement Shakeology.
That is for you to decide, but I KNOW that Shakeology has helped me tremendously with satisfying cravings, having more energy and mental clarity, refueling my body so I am not as sore after a workout, and so much more!

When purchasing the PACK that includes the program AND a month of SHAKEOLOGY, you save over $70 than if you were to purchase these items separately!

What is Shakeology?

I am starting a 21 day online accountability group via facebook and would LOVE to have you join me! We will start on the first Monday of each month!!! 

Message me for details! cherishsaurey@gmail.com 

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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You are worthy of love and greatness! TODAY!

Do you ever have those moments of feeling like a failure? Feeling like you aren't "good enough" for whatever reason? Then read further and take this to heart <3 

This month I am in an online book club and we are reading 
The Gifts of Imperfection by Brené Brown

I had heard great things about this book from a few different people, and I KNOW that the description of the book is something I struggle with (Embracing who you are and learning to love yourself despite the doubts you have while trying to live up to who you think you are "supposed to be"). 
I knew it was time to read THIS book and I am already learning a lot :)

In the chapter we are discussing now, she talked about how we all create "worthiness prerequisites" for ourselves. We make ourselves believe that we re not worthy until....(such and such happens) or we are not good enough until (insert event or goal)..... 

>> I'll put myself out there and share a bit of my list of "worthiness prerequisites" that I have subconsciously placed upon myself, and in sharing, I just hope that this will help you think about YOURS. Because once you recognize them, you can learn to let them go.

> I'll be worthy when I reach my goal weight
> I'll be worthy when I am more outgoing
> I'll be worthy when I can control my bad eating habits 100%
> I'll be worthy when I have a new house that is completely finished and ALWAYS clean (geeez, maybe when I am 80 and my grand kids are all grown)
> I'll be worthy if everyone likes me
> I'll be worthy when I help at least 10 others lose over 20 pounds
> I'll be worthy when I'm making a certain amount of money
> I'll be worthy when when I am completely organized
>I'll be worthy if I have a flat stomach

These are things I tell myself without even realizing it.

The author says in the book >>>>

"Worthy now. Not if. Not when. We are worthy of love and belonging NOW. Right this minute. As is."

Isn't that RELIEVING? Worthy NOW. TODAY. No matter what.

So, whatever YOUR list is, just know that you are enough RIGHT NOW. AS IS. Wherever you are reading this from, you are worthy of love and belonging just as you are in this very moment this very day.

Don't wait to be GREAT. Be GREAT today because YOU are worthy of GREATNESS <3 

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